Children are embellish life, it is natural to think after a couple of marriages reproduction Vhaour maternity and paternity priceless, but that after careful reflection in this matter may take some couples decide that the effect of having only one child is more appropriate at this time.
The one-child just something that needs to take a broader view of the physical condition and social at the moment, he needs to think about the positives and negatives thereof and then proceed in this decision, the following review the most important positives and negatives consequences of having only one child:
Positives:
- Reduce the financial burden:
It is known that a child's upbringing somewhat expensive and need to be planned physical and savings, a child beginning needs to requirements indispensable then school fees not to mention what it takes from medical care and insurance for all its needs from clothes and expense and other, all of this would make a couple repacking considering the number of children who want to Have.
- Exclusivity love of parents:
It is natural to feel that the only interest of the child and his parents and their love of excess and his attachment to him, which protect him from thinking about things and those feelings of jealousy toward others, especially those faced by children toward their brothers.
- Home calm and less exhausted parents:
House which contains a child alone be more calm, adding that the parents are the least exhausted toward the requirements of their child only, it will not be a nuisance to the contrary from the house, which contains more than one child.
- Strong link to the child and his parents:
Usually the only child relationship with a strong and solid with his parents do not feel their power it does not feel its adherence to them, they share the same interests and trends.
- The sole child is regulator and has to bear responsabilety:
Usually the only child tends to be responsible for himself and behaviors in this case his parents raised him on it, as it is orderly and tidy in his scientific and practical, and loved to help his family.
negatives: (usually reverse pluses different ways of Education)
Only child can not be a role model among his family members in particular or to those who are younger, but that motivates them to encourage parents to be role models among their friends.
- Over-reliance on parents:
Only child often bow to his parents and imitate their style and disposition to deal with things, but the methods of modern education to ensure avoidance of the child for this attitude and self-reliance.
- Submit to the stereotype:
As the only child is subject to a system of stereotypical images of life, are seen him a lot as a spoiled child is not able to post things other than winning plus interest and fear by his family.
- Pressure:
Bear great pressure only child by his family and friends, which narrows it down and lead him to a negative result in the school performance and social relationships, and others.
any couple going to have a child must think carefully about whether they would having only one child or more, and review all of the positives and negatives to determine their destination accurately.
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